Wednesday, August 8, 2018

A Month Of Poems




31 Days Poetry Challenge


In the July heatwave I decided I needed some mental stimulation!

So, I set myself a poetry challenge, using prompts from the internet and wrote a poem a day, some good, some not so good but this is the result.......

1) First
My first child , born in a bubble of joy
A tiny, scrawny loved baby boy
Then the bubble burst.

Worry, fear, happiness, dismay
Passed through our lives each and every day
Then the bubble re-formed.

Baby grew to boy and fellow
A man with goals; thoughtful and mellow  
Now the bubble is iridescent. 

The shimmering bubble floats free into a clear blue sky.

2) About Me

A daughter, mother and a spouse
Life shaped and moulded, but once a mouse.
Nurse and child-shaper in job and home
Now with longings to explore and roam.
Quiet but endurance weathered
Valued, loved and with luck, treasured.
                                                            
3) A Freaking Sonnet                                                                                                                            

Today I must write a freaking sonnet
But I am not a William Shakespeare
“Shall I compare thee,” I have no comment
My skills at poetry are now made clear.
Count the syllables and make sure it rhymes
Rack my brain for a suitable topic
I have read this now a million times
This challenge feels almost endoscopic.
The torture continues as it confounds
I sit and stare at my screen, much like Will
I need help as the bend I go around
My brain implodes as I seek an Advil.
I am here, finally I’m at the end
How Shakespeare did it I can’t comprehend.        

4) Being Alone

Being alone is not so bad
There’s no-one around to make you mad
The conversation can amuse
When tired you can take a snooze
But sometimes you can become a bore
The thoughts in your head don’t amuse anymore
That’s when you must seek a friend
Before to lunacy you descend.

5) Blue

Why when sad do we say blue
There’s a whole range of colors to look to
We could be mauve, or beige, or grey
They could also represent dismay.

Blue is the color of a swallow-filled sky
The iridescent wing of a butterfly
An ocean that laps around bare toes
A silky petal on a flower that grows.

So when you are sad say I am grey
The color of a rain-filled day
Or beige, or mauve like a painful bruise 
Let us together rename “the blues.”

6) A process  (a haiku)

Grief is a process
A roller-coaster journey
Filled with memories

7) Inspired by.....Shel Silverstein
Butterfly

Papillon, vlinder, schmetterling
All different names for a wonderful thing
In Italy a farfalle flutters 
In English, it’s said, a butterfly butters
But in my garden it dips and flits
And once it’s tired on my knee it sits.

8) Life

Life is a book with multiple chapters
Some fun, some scary, some full of what matters
As you turn each page you never know what
Will happen, good, bad, like it or not
New chapters are best, as you start a new story
Wishing for adventure, or love or just glory
The thing about reading a good book, as you know
You never regret it if you use it to grow.

9) A Story….. of Pirate Dan

Let me tell you the tale of Pirate Dan
Who made his ship from a baked bean can.
He found his crew on a Facebook post
His parrot he swapped for piece of toast.

He sailed the ocean near and far
A compass trained on the brightest star
His pirate crew did swab the decks
But badly, as they needed specs.

Then one day his mother called
On the satellite phone he had installed
It was dinnertime she told him clearly
So home he went… he loved her dearly.

10) Summer

Sun kissed shoulders, lemonade
Children laughing on the sand
Colorful parasols for some shade
Cold beer bottle in my hand.

Bee filled garden, vibrant flowers
Slumbering cat soaks up the sun 
Swallows swooping, cleansing showers
Sunset watching with loved one.

The bliss of bare feet in the brook
Rosé wine in a tall chilled glass
A welcome read in a shady nook
The hum as someone mows the grass

These things are summer, all in a bundle
In blue and green with a red poppy bow
A time for joy before winter grumbles
Sun kissed smiles and faces aglow.

11) Night

The bat relishes the summer night
His swooping dance a great delight
The nocturnal bugs abscond in fright
He devours for hours until first light.

12) Change

Change from my pocket goes into the pot
I haven’t been collecting long but hope to buy a yacht.
Or maybe buy a house on a distant isle
Or perhaps a car for Martin, that would make him smile.
Helicopter lessons or a house in Tuscany
A different location would suit me wondrously.
Sorry? What’s that you say? You need to borrow cash?
I guess my dreams can wait awhile, they were a little rash.

13) I Wish I Could….

I wish I could speak Dutch but I think it is too late
The years I have lived here amount almost to eight.
My tongue doesn’t like it, the sounds are unpleasant
Conversations leave me needing an antidepressant.
Let me learn Italian, a melodious language
Or French, I can order a croissant and sandwich.
Maybe Spanish, but I’ll have to speak fast 
German may be too big a contrast.
Let’s be honest, it won’t come to pass
I’m an English speaking lazy ass.

14) Something Beginning With T
Teddy Bear

I have an old friend who sits on my chair
He’s 86 and going bald, with very little hair
His nose has a hole, he has a broken paw
His ears are all floppy but he cares not at all.

I don’t know his name, I think it’s just Bear
He seems fine with that title and shows not a care
He loved my mum, and she him all her days
So to thank him I honor his service with praise. 

15) Love

How to recognize love?
It’s in the eyes of a new mother
The trust in a dog’s gaze
The smile of a loved grandmother
The face of a groom on that most important of days.

Love is in in the face of a child
The purr of a lap-sitting kitten
The look of a boy as he is beguiled
And the glance of a girl who is smitten.

16) Confidence

“I have confidence,” sang Maria von Trapp
If only poise would come gift wrapped.
I sing the song and search inside
But my confidence gene will often hide.
“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take”
So I lift the stick and still the quake.

17) A Friend

A friend can be duct tape and hold you together
Repairing the cracks, whatever the weather.
Attached together like two sticky rolls
In the toolbox of life, two like minded souls.

A Friend #2

My friends are all scattered, like seeds round the planet
Planted and growing, our friendship organic.
Crisis or sadness, or sharing delights
If needed, I know they’d be on the next flight.
I’m blessed with so many, more than my share
A box full of flowers, petals of friendship laid bare.

18) Music

Choral music makes my heart soar
Jazz makes my feet tap on the floor
Coldplay reminds me of concert fun had.
Classic music reminds me of Dad.

19) Family
The Three Ages Of Family

Family is parents and sisters that frame you
The safety of a story, as you snuggle in bed
The love that is encased in the hug you curl into 
A golden imaginary thread.

Family is your children and partner in living
A bond that is made with new love
Scary, demanding but always life-giving
Gold strand draped below and above.

Family is grandchildren, the passing of time
The chance to replay the delight
Watching your children retell the rhyme
Your family enfolded in gold light.

20) Nature

You don’t need to watch Planet Earth on tv
To see nature, it’s out there in your yard
A bee in the flowers, or small bird in a tree
It takes patience, but it’s not too hard.

21) Your Inspiration
The Best Of Myself

Who inspires me to find the best in me?
Sometimes it’s my children and sometimes nobody
Often it’s the little voice I hear inside my head
Occasionally it’s Martin or a book that I have read
A friend that paints a picture or the one that does good stuff
One that travels round the world, the cancer-fighting friend who’s tough
My life is full of muses, I draw from each and every one
They all help shape this person but I’ve only just begun.

22)Pink

Pink is the sun as it touches the evening sky
The bonnet of a baby as it curls up with a sigh
The taste of strawberry ice cream, as it trickles down the cone
Or the petal of a sweet pea, in your garden grown.
It’s the color of a scar on a child’s knee
Or the shade of the coral beneath a deep blue sea.
The blush of a cheek after it’s first kiss
Pink is the color of everything that’s bliss.

23) Beauty

It’s in the eye of the beholder so they say
My eye sees beauty in a wild flower bouquet
In the face of a fledging bird as it learns to fly
In a seashell on a beach as I walk by
The array of cakes in a window spread
The tousled hair of my child in bed
The look of my cat as it whirrs and purrs
The wrinkles on a face that has lived for years
In a golden field after it’s crop is shorn
In the clasp of hands that are old and worn
To see beauty just look around
It’s not just in art that it can be found.

24) Strength 

Strength is not always about being robust
I see strength in my daughter each day
She takes on a challenge, her fears cast way
Though in herself she must trust.
She takes a deep breath and upward she rises
Fighting the monsters and winning the prizes.

25) Feelings

Anguish and happiness are two that I know well
Fearfulness and dejection ring loud alarm bells
I want to fill my life with feelings like peacefulness and joy
So plan to reject the feelings that really do annoy. 
So come on down energetic, high five free and easy
Let’s say hi to optimistic and keep life up and breezy.

26) Dreams

I dream of a house that overlooks a beach
Of growing old with Martin, of grandchildren to teach
The option to meet my friends for coffee or for lunch
A dog to walk, a donkey and a field where he can munch
The chance to see my kids more often, this would be the best
The last dream is the most important, then I would feel blessed. 

27) Childhood

I can hear my childhood in the ticking of a clock
The sound of shuffling footsteps in the hall
The giggles of children as the dog secured his flock
The summer sounding thwack of a cricket ball.

I can taste my childhood in a fresh baked slice of cake
In the tang of chlorinated water from the pool
The glass of lemonade that my nana used to make
The chill on my tongue of the Fab that kept me cool.

I can smell my childhood when I play with Plasticine
In the scent of face powder from a compact
The aroma of pipe tobacco, its smokers face serene 
Soap on a grandma of Lavender extract.

28) A Job
Dream Job
I’m thinking of my dream job but I’m not sure what that is?
A job with style and interest, with lots of sparkle & fizz.
An elephant foster mother, a trunk snuggle collector
A tapas taster, or a Belgian chocolate inspector?
Maybe a puppy and kitten cuddler, a job full of joy and soft fur
A champagne specialist, or a beer connoisseur.
Maybe my ultimate dream job has already occurred
Motherhood really was the job I preferred.

29) Food 
Seasonal Foodie Delights

Winter ~ A bowl full of goodness, steaming and hot
Chicken and vegetables, soup in a pot
My spoon at the ready, the bread to the side
The aroma surrounds me, my “blues” cast aside.

Spring ~ Rhubarb stalks of softest pink enclosed in piecrust neat
A blanket of golden brown pastry crust, hiding a tasty treat
Draped in a shawl of perfect whipped cream, grandma’s recipe
An edible sunset in a dish, tasting heavenly.

Summer ~ Joyous red tomatoes with basil leaves mingling
Olive oil, its taste clean and tingling
Creamy white mozzarella sitting on the plate
Oh hurry, I’m hungry, I really cannot wait.

Fall ~ A basket of blackberries, freshly picked gems
The countryside walk gives a gift to a friend
Mixed in with fresh apples, a crumbly pleasure
An autumn delight to savour and treasure.

30) Stars… (a haiku)

Shimmering star light
On a deep blue velvet sky
Wrapped up in the night.

31) Last 

At last, finally, this challenge is done
At times I wished I had never begun
My brain is quite frazzled, it’s empty and flat
I’m finding it hard to talk and to chat
My brain likes to rhyme and to search for a word
My conversations are becoming absurd
So enough of these poems, I’m out, I am done
No more rhyming for me…I’m signing OFF.

All written by Jackie Harding July 2018                                                                                                                                                                               



Monday, July 4, 2016

Re-newing and replenishing.

I have an imaginary jar that is filled with time with friends. This jar reminds me of how lucky I am to have such amazing people in my life  but can also serve as a reminder that I need a "top up" of friend time occasionally.

This I have just had, with a two week visit to my other home in Massachusetts. When you are an expat, living away from your nearest and dearest, your friends become your surrogate family. They are the ones who support you in times of crisis, or if your kids are driving you crazy! They are the ones who make meals when you have emergency surgery, and they are the ones that become as irreplaceable as your family. These friends are a touch stone of my life.



My time in MA was been filled with glorious weather, friend time and time on my favorite beaches, Wingaersheek and Cranes. Cranes was fun as I was surrounded by high school seniors killing time before graduation and I was entertained by young people wandering by in swimwear comparing cellulite....yeah, right!! Wingaersheek, seriously must be one of the most beautiful beaches ever, was quiet and peaceful . I was lucky to pick a "sandbar day" ~ when the tide is low at the right time of day you can walk out for hundreds of metres along a sand bar, with the river on one side and the ocean on the other, almost to Annisquam lighthouse. The sky and the ocean were cerulean blue and the sand sparkled with mica (or fairy dust, as Becky used to say) and the smile on my face said it all, as I remembered many happy times there, with my kids, Martin, my sisters and my expat friends.




Then there was a visit to Halibut Point and Rockport, a favorite haunt in the past, spent with a dear friend, and a lobster roll by the ocean, for lunch. Is there anything better than fresh lobster eaten with the scent of salt water surrounding you? As I wandered the streets in Rockport and reacquainted myself with Motif #1, I smiled as it was such a favorite of both my parents, and Martin's parents, when they came to visit....lovely reminiscences.  There was a walk around Newburyport, and an introduction to Massachusetts Horticultural Society in Wellesley, whilst my friend Melinda volunteered for three hours in the garden, and I wandered around taking photos and reading my book sat on a bench in the sunshine. Well, I didn't pack my gardening clothes!





A visit to the adorable town of Wolfeboro in New Hampshire to visit a friend's new home was a delight on a very hot and humid day that definitely started the whole vacation off with a sense of what was to come, regarding time with friends. My trip was built on the back of this friend's retirement party, as I wanted to share this special time with her. The party also gave me a chance to catch up with old Proctor friends, which is always fun. I particularly enjoyed the look of confusion on peoples faces, " Huh? I thought Jackie had left Proctor?"




The friend jar was filling up fast with dinners with old teacher friends, and a surprise re-connection with a friend who'd drifted away. Dinner in a favorite Mexican restaurant on my first evening in MA, with my two Fab Four members, on the way from the airport ended up with a chance meeting with Patti. It was so much fun to tap her on the shoulder and watch her face fill with surprise at seeing me! Pure luck, but we were meant to re-connect and spent one evening sat at dinner catching up with twelve months of news. A drink on the deck at Salem Landing with two good friends one evening was fun. Then there was coffee with a friend and delicious treats at the Topsfield Bakeshop. A walk on Cranes beach early one morning with dear friend Helen, gave us a smile as three lifeguards came running out of the mist, it was like a moment from BayWatch! I even exercised with a friend, with a good walk in the Bradley Palmer state park. My friends are from far and wide these days and a Romanian friend, who I met in NL and has now moved to Lincoln, MA was another friend meet-up. So weird to see her there living the life I led as a new arrival 17 years ago! A final meet-up of a different kind was the opportunity to say hello to one of Thom's high school friends, who happened to be home from Kenya for his sisters graduation. As I stood chatting to this well-travelled and accomplished young man I realized that he and Thom had graduated that very week, 11 years ago. Time flies it would seem.







My time spent with Mary is always a blessing, my "home from home." We get to chat before she leaves for school and when she gets home and she even trusted me with the care of her aging wonderful old dog, Midas, for a couple of nights. He was under strict instructions to play fair and remain upright and healthy on my watch. He did. Another benefit of hanging out with Mary is getting to enjoy her friends whilst hanging out at Salem Landing and experiencing what it's like to have grown up in Salem where literally "everyone knows your name"!




So my friendship jar is full for now! As the quote says, "Friends are like stars, you don't always see them but they are always there." 












Monday, October 5, 2015

Goodbye Old Friend.

Grieving over the death of a pet is something only other pet owners can relate to, you have to own a pet to really understand the companionship and love that you are given by that bundle of fur and, although I have been in this situation before, I was stunned by the overwhelming grief I experienced recently, at the loss of our cat, Tosca. That small bundle of fur left a huge space in our lives.

Tosca was almost 20 years old and had travelled from the UK to the USA to the Netherlands with us. When she first arrived in our family she tolerated the kids, and was possibly the first feline fan of the Harry Potter books, as she sit on my son’s bed avidly listening to the story. She was a pretty cat and used this advantage, as beneath this cute exterior lay a stealth aggressor and terrorizer of small children and unsuspecting adults. She’d hide in plain sight and swat at ankles or allow the unsuspecting stroker of fur to let their guard down and then bite down hard! Swooshy skirts were a great irritant and  she intimidated my mother-in-law by climbing onto the hem of her skirt and hanging there!




Despite this Attila the Hun side to her character we loved her…even if our guests didn’t. When we moved to the US she had to adapt quickly to the environment and after being an outside cat found herself restricted to inside as we lived in a motel until our shipped furniture arrived. Oh, the indignity of wearing a cat leash, the only way she could get outside!  But once settled in her new home she quickly discovered a new sport, hunting chipmunks. There were many times we had to rescue Chip and Dale and once even found a rather smart chipmunk sitting in Barbie’s car trying to make a quick get-away!

As Tosca got older she tolerated the arrival of an older adopted cat, Twinkle, who was escaping the return to the UK and quarantine, but was enormously affronted by the appearance of a new kitten. She never really accepted Squishy and made sure the underling knew exactly whom the monarch of the house was. She had a new focus for her stealth skills and Squishy developed a great respect for the queen!

It is known that pets are beneficial to our lives in many ways. The action of stroking a pet can reduce blood pressure and stress and research shows that people with pets even recover faster from heart attacks. Owning a pet can even be an ice-breaker with people, especially dogs (I’m not sure Tosca qualified in this department!) and there is some scientific research that shows children who grow up with animals in the home have less allergies. Of course owning a dog definitely improves your fitness with all those long walks.

The move to the Netherlands was challenging but for an old traveller it was just another place to rest her old bones. Tosca had mellowed by this time and soon settled into the rhythm of Dutch life. She continued to make us laugh with her crazy bursts of energy, her “sway belly” swinging side-to-side as she ran or when she’d go and look through the neighbors windows, when they were “cat sitting” for us, and remind them it was dinner time, virtually pointing to her imaginary watch! She even tolerated another move within the Netherlands…her fourth home, but remained the queen to the end. We miss her friendship and even Squishy is feeling the loss. Goodbye old friend.








http://mentalfloss.com/article/51154/8-benefits-being-cat-owner

Sunday, July 26, 2015

Travel Tales

It's been awhile I know! Life has been somewhat stressful since moving, with a family situation and the continuation of the re-model of our new home, but I'm here now!

I love travel as you know! There is nothing more exhilarating than getting on to a train or plane, or in the car and exploring a new country. Just recently a very good friend threw us a "lifeline" when she offered us the use of her vacation home in Bavaria for a week. So, the bags were packed and, as Becky was also visiting, the three of us made our way to the mountains. Unfortunately the weather was not kind to start with but finally the sun shone and, as always, the mountains calmed my soul. As the American naturalist, John Muir, once said, “Climb the mountains and get their good tidings. Nature's peace will flow into you as sunshine flows into trees. The winds will blow their own freshness into you, and the storms their energy, while cares will drop away from you like the leaves of Autumn.”

The area of Oberammergau is stunningly beautiful, and every time I visit I am known to gasp and "oooh" as I travel around. This time was no exception as we took a gentle hike up the Ammer valley to Ettal, stopping for a beer at a local hostelry, of course. Then some hikes down a couple of small local mountains, the Laber and the Herzogstand, over the next couple of days, testing our knees! The week was wrapped up with a short visit to one of my favorite cities, Munich, where we enjoyed several good German beers and a bratwurst or two in the sunshine, whilst exploring.
Oberammergau

Ammer valley


Herzogstand.




Surfers in Munich!

Tourist watching.


My travel blog is nowhere near as exciting as Thom and Christina's, http://chriandthom.tumblr.com as they have spent the past 12 months traveling through South America! They are passionate young travelers with some great tales to tell, but the people who have inspired me the most are good friends of ours, Kate and John. They have decided to take a "gap year" and travel the world for 12 months. So? Kids do that all the time, what's the big deal? Kate and John are our age though, with a mortgage, grown up kids and responsibilities and have decided to do this now, before they can't! It takes a heap of courage to put those responsibilities to one side and take time for yourselves and I respect them for the step they have taken. I'm sure they have stressed over the decision at length but they are now on the way, stopping off with us for a couple of nights, before heading through Europe towards St. Petersburg and a rail trip through Siberia. I look forward to traveling vicariously through them by following their blog....what travel tales they will have to tell! http://thebirdshaveflown2015.blogspot.com